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How can I help my 14 years old daughter? ?

Posted May 3, 2017 - 10:24am

She has liked to abuse animals since she was little. She even killed her two hamsters, hits and makes fun of little kids and her classmates. When she hurts an animal, she likes the fear in its eyes, the pain.
She has two personalities, the first one is wise and respectful, and the second one is bad and cruel. I'm afraid that her real personality is the second one. She is a very good liar, she loves to lie. If she wants to create a scenario about anything she wants, she would do it and everyone would believe her. She's very manipulative. She stole toys when she was at the kindergarten and when she was nine or ten years old she stole a secret code from a plush toy which cost very much. She stole it when the seller was busy, but in that shop there were cameras. She sat in the dead corner of the camera and stole it! She planned all these things from home, and as I said, she was only nine or ten!! She told me about this when she was thirteen. I was shocked! She's very very intelligent! How could a child plan these things with so much attention without missing anything?!
When she does something wrong, I tell her about it and she doesn't seem to feel sorry.
She often watches men abusing animals on the internet and likes it. She seems a bad person.
We are a good family, nobody hurts her or somethig, what can I do? She scares me!

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jordan_smith35

She needs to start seeing a therapist. She is still very young and she could change but in order for that t happen she needs to talk to a professional. 


taymer1409

I think. That it is necessary to address to the therapist


alfie.george4321

I agree, she should see a therapist. If she's doing the same thing consistently over the years this needs to be dealt with professionally, before she adopts this as her habit in her teens. This could have potentially devastating effects on her personal life as she grows older.