Being in a car accident is frustrating. It could be a bit scary, if the accident is anything other than a minor fender-bender. However, having your children in the car with you at the time of a car accident is terrifying. Your first concern after the shock of the collision wears off is for your children. Are they physically injured? Are they frightened or upset? It can be difficult, but you need to remain calm. Your children will often react as you react.