When you have a loved one or family member who has an addiction, it's clear that this condition not only affects them directly but other people around them as well. It may be a difficult situation to be in, but it's possible to help. Read on to see some ways in which you can support them through their addiction.
Lend a Supportive Ear
Rather than constantly offering advice and solutions to your loved one, try to listen to them. You may be surprised to learn that they have issues and complications that are so hidden from everyone's sight that they don't know how they can seek help for them. When you show them that you're willing to listen without judging them, they will open up to you. In this way, it may be possible to work on getting help. Don't be discouraged if you think they've made progress but then relapse, as early recovery is a time at which there are high rates of relapse. Stand by them, since it's known that the more support they have, the better the chances that they will remain sober.
Educate Yourself
Addiction is a dark area, and while there's a lot of information about it, some of it is rumors. You should educate yourself and find a way to tell the truth apart from the false information; this way, you will have an easier time helping your loved one. Don't say and do things that will push them further down their destructive path but rather let them know you still care for them and accept them as they are. This will be easier to do when you know what works and why it does, so it's worth taking the time to keep yourself informed.
Assist With Finding a Proper Attorney
Since defendants who have been convicted and are represented by assigned counsel or public defenders are more likely to be sentenced to incarceration than those who hired private attorneys, it's good to help find a good attorney if necessary. Further, around two-thirds of convicted defendants who had private attorneys were either sentenced to jail or prison. If your loved one who suffers from an addiction is in a situation where they risk incarceration, you can help them by finding a good attorney for them who will help them win their case. You will be able to help them work towards recovery.
Encourage Them to Seek the Services of a Professional Counselor
Rather than try to do all the heavy lifting yourself, you should work alongside a professional counselor. This way, you will be more likely to see good results. Talk to your loved one about this, as they may feel attacked and put up resistance. Have them understand that it's in their best interest, and when they accept it, half the battle will be won.
Expect Difficulties On Their Road to Recovery
Finally, it's not going to be easy because there are situations that will push your loved one to relapse. You may even have disagreements during this time, but remember to keep things respectful. Understand that they have a condition and aren't in full control of their words and actions, so don't take the things they do and say to heart, as this will make the process complicated and likely to fail.
With these tips, you can start to help your loved one fight their addiction. Always keep a positive outlook and don't try to guilt them into kicking their habit, as this won't work. Remember that it's about them and not anyone else, and when you keep the objectivity, you will have a chance of getting through to them.
