One of the most common complaints of most parents is the lack of responsibility of the children.  Not only do they not help with household chores, but they also do not fulfill their personal obligations.  A sense of responsibility must be instilled from the time children are young, and it will require a lot of patience and perseverance from the parents.   Parents: As Role Models of Responsibility    Children must be aware that each member of the family must have their personal and family responsibilities..