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There's a great line by Aeschylus that with every drop, drop, drop of pain on the human heart, wisdom grows. Sometimes we can hold in abeyance and not hover over our children a helicopter so much that they don't know and are unfamiliar with grief, but teaching them that grief is a very natural part of life. Shakespeare's line is "grief that does not speak whispers to the over fraught heart and bids it to break." We know as adults that tears that do not flow will make other organs weep inside of us. It's a natural part of life to be a person who allows grief. And so that sadness is permissible. And parents who are over-helicoptering with emotions are disastrously close to teaching the kid to be in self-doubt. And that won't for them. They need to know that it's okay to cry and be sensitive and confident and loving. But it's really important for us to let those things take like a river its natural course. A great line from one of the little kids. A little kindergartner said, "don't let your sad turn to mad because then it all gets bad." And I love that because it teaches you so much the importance of allowing the course. Because so many of our kids are angry and self-destructive because they haven't been allowed to grieve, and because we worry too much obsessively with them about it.

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Michael Pritchard

Humanist & Child Advocate

Michael Pritchard is a nationally acclaimed keynote speaker praised by the Wall Street Journal, CNN and Time for his ability to use humor to inspire and educate his audiences on communication skills. Michael Pritchard is a big guy with a warm heart who as one student described him, “truly walks as he talks.”

He began his career on both the comedy stage and as a juvenile counselor in San Francisco’s Youth Guidance Center. In 1980, Michael Pritchard won first place in the San Francisco International Stand Up Comedy Competition as well as winning the prestigious California Probation Officer of the Year.

Michael’s offers from Hollywood rolled in including a guest appearance on an Emmy Award winning episode of “Taxi”. His sensational standup comedy billed him with Robin Williams, Jerry Seinfeld, Dana Carvey and Whoopi Goldberg playing venues as Caesar’s, the Comedy Store, Universal Ampitheater and opening for such names as Diana Ross, the Grateful Dead, Kenny Rogers, Mike Mc Donald and Boz Scaggs. But Michael rejected offers from Hollywood to focus on using his comic talents for inspiring youth and adults.

Drawing from his counseling background, Michael Pritchard began using humor to inspire, teach communication skills, anger management, diversity, conflict resolution and overcoming burnout and stress.

His broad base of audience from corporate employees, healthcare workers, government and state officials have honored him with countless standing ovations and numerous awards including: President’s Volunteer Action Award, Commendation - Office of the Attorney General , Paul Harris Fellowship - Rotary International, Toastmaster’s International Speaker, Outstanding Performance - Federal Executive Board , Josephine Duveneck Humanitarian Award and the Key to the City of San Francisco.As a result of his work, Michael Pritchard has been featured on CNN, NBC’s “The Today Show”, “The Tonight Show”, CBS “Sunday Morning” with Charles Kuralt, “Time” magazine and “People” magazine.

His seven educational series for PBS and distribution has been seen by millions and focuses on youth guidance in the areas of violence prevention. “The Power of Choice” “You can Choose”, “Big Changes, Big Choices”.

Forming Heartland Media, he continued with “Red Ribbon Week” and “PeaceTalks” teaching students to make positive choices.“SOS: Saving Our Schools from Hate and Violence”, featured in both Time magazine and on CNN, filmed after the tragic Columbine disaster. His new series: “Lifesteps” builds the social and emotional intelligence in youth and has already received the Parents Choice Award

For his work in promoting nonviolence with youth, Dr. Michael Pritchard was awarded an Honorary Doctorate in Humane Letters from Hartwick University and winning, 2001 Lewis Hine’s Award for Service to Children & Youth Certificate of Appreciation and the 2002 Marin Community Foundations Beryl Buck Fund Award for achievement in Promoting Nonviolence.

As an extension of Heartland Media, he established Heartland Media Foundation building character and emotional intelligence, violence prevention, inciting motivation and leadership in both youth and adults to improve schools and communities. The foundation provides youth guidance programs, including video, print curriculum, and live presentations by Michael Pritchard to aid in schools and communities where the funding is limited.

In the fund raising capacity, Michael Pritchard has help raise millions of dollars by donating his time and talent to events and various charitable organizations including: Boys and Girls Club – Ronald McDonald House –Salvation Army - Jewish Family Services – SF Giants Community Fund – American Heart Association –Women’s Wellness Forum – Special Olympics - CASA Court Appointed Special Advocates - Bread & Roses – Recreation Center for the Handicapped –– DARE –– Texan’s War on Drugs –– Vietnam Vets of America - Guide Dogs for the Blind

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There's a great line by Aeschylus that with every drop, drop, drop of pain on the human heart, wisdom grows. Sometimes we can hold in abeyance and not hover over our children a helicopter so much that they don't know and are unfamiliar with grief, but teaching them that grief is a very natural part of life. Shakespeare's line is "grief that does not speak whispers to the over fraught heart and bids it to break." We know as adults that tears that do not flow will make other organs weep inside of us. It's a natural part of life to be a person who allows grief. And so that sadness is permissible. And parents who are over-helicoptering with emotions are disastrously close to teaching the kid to be in self-doubt. And that won't for them. They need to know that it's okay to cry and be sensitive and confident and loving. But it's really important for us to let those things take like a river its natural course. A great line from one of the little kids. A little kindergartner said, "don't let your sad turn to mad because then it all gets bad." And I love that because it teaches you so much the importance of allowing the course. Because so many of our kids are angry and self-destructive because they haven't been allowed to grieve, and because we worry too much obsessively with them about it.