I love lusty people. I love people who have a lust for life, a lust for a good meal, a lust for a good talk, a good you-know-what, a happy life, a happy family, a baby. Lust is a beautiful quality. It’s also a very uninteractive quality, because you become so lusty, so tunnel vision that you forget to have perspective. You forget to ask yourself the important questions. And actually lusty people can be needy people. Needy people needing to fill a hole as well because of something that they’re missing. So it’s very important on the path to parenthood that you know that you definitely want to be a parent. And on this baby lusty path to parenthood, which I completely relate to, you don’t ask yourself this question. Are you willing to give up your freedom? Are you willing to put your heart on the altar of motherhood? Are you willing to have your children break your heart? Are you willing to have your heart walk outside of you, in front of you, like this, like the little toddler and make all of these sacrifices? And the answer is likely going to be yes, because it is one of the greatest experiences you will ever experience in your life. Your heart will grow a million times. It will multiply and become bigger and greater. And everything in your life becomes bigger and greater through parenthood. But if as you go through the process of lusting for these babies you don’t ask yourself these important questions, you will lose yourself along the way. And maybe, for me at least along the journey of baby lust and then discovering that I had fertility issues, I had to begin to ask myself these questions because there was time to ask them. I wasn’t sure I was going to be able to become a parent, so I had to ask myself these questions. And I felt in the end I would probably adopt, no matter what. I was going to be somebody’s mother. I was really clear about that. But at the time, the fertility issues afforded me the opportunity to step out of my lust and get a little clearer on what my purpose was and if I really wanted to be a parent. It was a very valuable time. And recently a dear friend of mine has had fertility issues and she has discovered that she doesn’t want to be a mom as she’s gone through this journey of seeing how much she wants it and how much is she really driven by her lust for parenthood. And she’s decided that it’s not for her. So I really applaud her for her integrity in discovering that. So all these lusty qualities in life are beautiful. But we have to remember to step away from our passion, get some detachment, and ask some good questions.