Trying to have a baby can be stressful. You would think it would be fun, but particularly if you're struggling with infertility or you're really focused on trying to make this happen, it can take all the spontaneity and all the fun out of having sex. So how do you keep it fun? How do you keep it exciting? Infertility can actually one of the most difficult things for couples to deal with. And it can actually in many ways ruin your sex life. So if you're struggling during the time of your life when you're trying to conceive a child, Eros energy is eroticism. It's alive-ness. It's passion. And that's what you're trying to do. You're trying to create life with passion and alive-ness. Carve out some time when you can be together to create that alive-ness and that passion. Instead of making it just a routine where you call each other and say, okay, it's time. Make an additional time during the week that you create that has nothing to do with conception. That has to do with just fun and adventure and alive-ness, so the two of you can remember that you're just baby-making machines. That you are a romantic, erotic, alive, and passionate couple.