See most parents have the wrong idea about childhood. They so much want their children to have the perfect childhood with no mistakes, no adversity, no big challenges, everything is so smooth. But life isn't that way. And what children need more than the perfect childhood is the ideal parent who supports the child at those difficult times. This is how we learn to bounce back from life, when things happen. And every child has their own challenges. there's no child that goes through life without their upsets and their challenges. And what makes the difference for them is is their parent present for them at that time? If they're upset, are they heard? If they need extra support, do they get that extra support? It's giving the child the support they need that builds the trust in life that when things get bad, I'm still loved. When things get bad, I can still trust others to be there for me. And one more element. Sometimes parents beat themselves up for not being the perfect parent. If you were the perfect parent, your child would never learn how to forgive. Forgiveness is one of the most important traits that anybody can ever learn in life. And we all come in with the potential, up to about 9-10 years old, we all automatically forgive our parents. So the more parents can acknowledge, oh, I made a mistake, the children can go, oh, that's okay. But when parents make mistakes, and they don't acknowledge they made mistakes, children always blame themselves. So a quick story. I'm walking by one of my daughter's rooms as a young girl, and a friend dropped a champagne glass. And I could hear it crash. And the girl goes, oh my God your parents are going to kill me! And my daughter said, nonsense. My dad says it's okay to make mistakes. As a matter of fact, every week my dad makes a mistake. It's okay. And then she called out to me and she said, Daddy, Daddy. And I pretended like I wasn't there, and I walked in. And she said, looked, she dropped the champagne glass. And I told her that it's okay to make mistakes. And I said, of course it's okay to make mistakes. It's alright. And then my daughter says, what mistakes did you make this week Daddy? And then I was quick to respond, because I'm not the perfect parent. I said, on Tuesday I was supposed to pick you up at 3 and I got there around 3:15. And I apologized and I made it up to you by spending extra time in the park. That's what we have to do is be examples to our children of being responsible. That we all make mistakes. And we make it up to people. And we all deserve to be forgiven.