There's a big question I think for all us parents, nature versus nurture. Who are these people? Are we responsible for everything that they are? I know looking back on my childhood, it took a long time to stop blaming my parents or over-congratulating them for who I was. I just was who I was and yes, there is a lot of environment that makes you who you are but let's just look at two parents, same parents, two kids a year apart let’s say, two completely different people and recognizing that and taking that weight off their shoulders. You're not responsible for everything but also recognizing who they are. And even with Easton who's 6 years old I see respect is such a huge word in my relationship with her because she's totally different from me. She's not going to be an actress. She's not going to be a performer, you know. She doesn't know how to read and write yet so I don't know if she's going to be an author but I can say that we're very different people and yet you have to be the greatest parent you can be, of course, but you also have to recognize when you see something in your child that's different from you and cultivate it and support it and not judge it and question it and not be intimidated by it and not compete with it either. Because they may be more successful or do things you never even dreamed of, that never even traipsed across your imagination as a possibility for you, is something that they intuitively and distinctly think about themselves. It's something that they want. It's something that they've got. It's a gift and it's your job to like Callie Brand said, to not own your children. They are not your possessions. They are not your purpose. You are on your own life path. You are there simply as a springboard for them to go into their lives and it is a privilege to be a parent and that is what your parenting duties I think really are when you define them to the most minute detail. You are there as a springboard for them to spring into their freedom from you. They do not belong to you. My step-mom said something really great this weekend. She said, "If you accept your children for who they are, they will not abandon you," and I thought that was great because she has a 24-year-old, a 27-year-old and I'm 40. So she has children who have different age ranges who've not abandoned her, who love coming home, love family dinner. It's not obligatory; it's fun and we look forward to it and we've actually become a much tighter family as we've all gotten older because she's sort of gotten out of the way a little bit and accepted us and always, every step of the way, maybe because she was a working mom, she cultivated our individuality and didn't compete with it or judge it or interfere with it because it was different than her own. Because we have innate gifts that she didn't have and she recognized them. And just like hers were recognized in her, and her's were cultivated so she achieved success. I think if you're thinking about supporting a child to pursue a career and again I'll say a child to pursue a career, not a hobby because if they want to go into the arts or they want to be an athlete, you're embarking on a career at a young age. You’re having to nurture them as a parent would and give them that love and support when they're having to work 14 hours a day and their friends are going to birthday parties and playing and falling in love and all these things that are happening and they're having a grueling working day, you have to support your child through that but you also have to not interfere with it if that's really what they want to do and it can be very confusing I think. I've seen it working with actresses and actors, young actors on movies and television shows. You're just looking at them you know, you're dog tired standing in your high heels, doing a scene and they're right there next to you and they're 10. And you can't help but be a little curious, "Why are you here? Do you have a passion for this or did your mom make you do it?" but you can see it in their eyes, at least the ones who want to be there, that they love it. So you have to cultivate that, their individuality.