When my wife and I decided to get a divorce, there really wasn't much of a question of who would get the child. We both knew that we would both be there, at least half of the time. We both knew that neither one of us would slack. We both new that being in our child's life was important. And we knew that the other person was just as important in our child's life. It was never a question of who would have custody of our child. I think that every parent should put aside everything negative, everything that has lead up to the divorce, all of the problems and all of the drama, and all of the resentment, anger, and even, hatred. They need to present a united front to their child. A front that says, "You are more important, than our problems."