Parents ask me about the internet as being a draw or magnet for offenders to molest their children. In reality, the place that a child is more apt to be molested, is in their own home. That sounds so counter productive to who we are as people, but the person who is most likely to molest a child is not a stranger. That person is a family member or an acquaintance. What we have to do is understand that, so that we can teach our children the really positive things about protecting ourselves. Number one, you do not have to kiss uncle Harry every night he comes to visit you. Sometimes we want family to have a relationship with our children. But you have to say, if a child does not want to be friendly with an aunt, an uncle, or a family friend. You do not have to force them. We have this fantasy that we want our children to respect their elders, but in reality, we have to understand that sometimes those elders are putting our child at risk. We want to teach our kids some critical thinking. Things like, if somebody says to you, "This is our special secret." If somebody says to you, "You can't tell." If somebody says to you, "I'm going to show you some adult things, but you can't say anything to another adult." Those are warning signs. Adults don't have special secrets with little kids. Little kids need to know that, so that when somebody says that, that's a warning sign. Then we need to teach our kids to tell and keep telling, until an adult listens.