So children are very much impacted by growing up in a family with a sex addict as one of their parents. And there's a number of ways that can happen and there's a number of ways that you can think about dealing with that. One of the ways is through the exposure to the parents behavior either watching them or seeing them wih pornography and then being curious or traumatized by seeing, so you have an eight year old walk in on his father masterbating to pornography, very traumatic for children. The key is for children is not to overstimulate them before they're developmentally ready to process what they're witnessing. That's always the key for parents as they start to ask questions about is this too much? So that happens. The conflict between the parents is also part of what impacts the kids, so it's exposure to the sexual behaviors, also affairs. So invariably when we in my practice, you know, we have people who, you know, I knew my dad was having an affair. I knew my mother was having an affair, kids know. Parents think they're hiding it, kids know. Almost all the time, kids particularly your first borns and your last borns are always tuned into the marital relationship and they more than the other kids can often be quite attune to that. So it's important that the kids understand in the treatment process what's been going on without overexposing them to too much information. So at a young age, you know, at a five year old, your father and I have had some problems and we're working on them, you know? If the kid has been exposed to pornography, the father says, you know, I shouldn't be doing that, that hurts your mother and I'm working on that. So it's important to let the children know that you're getting help, but not giving them more information than is needed. And one of the problems that we see sometimes when that is broken is sometimes the partner or spouse in their anger understandably will want to tell the kids what the other parent did sexually and what we see is what we call a secondary trauma issue in which the child is now damaged by the revealing from their parent who has been angry. Your father has had affairs with prostitutes to a 12 year old girl is not the thing to do even if you're angry with your husband as much as it makes sense that you'd want to do that, it becomes its own tramatic experience with the children.