So my child's a bully, that's a really hard thing for a parent to hear. Lots of times parents cannot believe that their child can be doing bullying behavior. But I think it's important, even if you get that information, to sit down and be calm and not get angry about it, because that will turn your child off from talking to you about it and they may not want to tell you the truth. But if you say calmly, "I got this report, I heard about this, let's talk about what happened" from their point of view, and you let them know that you will listen actively and carefully without getting angry, they'll probably tell you what the story is. Now maybe that kids are trying to move up the social ladder, they may tell you what happened or they may blame it on someone else. But as a parent, it's really important that you let them know that that behavior is unacceptable. That any time they're mean or hurtful to someone else, we don't do that in our family; it's kind of setting a family value. And the thing you want to do as a parent is show them that whenever they do something outside of that aggressive behavior, like being inclusive, or sharing, or being positive or nice to someone in the family or their friends, you monitor closely and when you see them doing something nice, say, "Thumbs up." You show them that that's the behavior that you want to see from them. So you're letting them know that the aggressive behavior is unacceptable but you're rewarding the positive behavior that moves more towards social inclusion and let's your kid know that that's what you value.