So, here's my golden nugget, and you won't believe it. I have four children. Each of them went to the same preschool. They're from the same parents, same genes. They could not be so different from one other, so different that I had to put them in four different schools. So, that being said, are children who they are because of us, in spite of us, and then something that has nothing to do with us. So, when your children aren't behaving the way that you think they should, or they aren't doing what you think they should be doing, just remember, you're not to blame, and you're not not to blame. It's just the way it is.