“That’s not fair!” is something you’ll hear in most households raising children. However, if you’re raising twins, you might hear “That’s not fair!” from the minute the twins wake up in the morning until the time they go to bed at night. Twins are incredibly adapt at keeping track of who’s done what and who has what. “You have more juice in your cup than I do!” “You spent longer weeding with daddy than I did!” “You were in the front seat last time!” Parents of twins really have to get this in a perspective and take it all in stride. And remember, life is not fair and twins are not equal. Parents really have to develop a resiliency and an attitude of how much they can tolerate and how much attention they can pay without driving everybody insane. One thing that parents can do to help make this a little bit easier is switch off odd/even days. On odd days, one goes first and on even days, the other one goes first. Some parents do it weekly – queen for a week, king for a week. And that’s one way that they’re able to regulate the fairness issue more equitably.