Well, children almost always have fantasies about reuniting, particularly young children, grammar school age children, etc. That's why when a parent dates, the child often has such difficulty with that. Because in a way it's kind of ruining the fantasy that the parents are going to get back together. It is a reasonable thing to do, to tell children every now and then, "I love you very much. I'm glad that dad loves you very much. But I want you to know that daddy and I, just because we went to the PTA meeting together, or just because we went to this wedding together, I want you to know that mommy and daddy are not getting back together as husband and wife. We will continue to be your parents but will never be husband and wife again." So we tell children that directly. We also can ask children how they feel about that, "Do you ever sometimes wish that mommy and daddy got back together?" If the child says, "Yes," you can say, "You know, I've talked to friends and their children feel just the same way. So I understand how you feel. It's not going to happen, but that's the feeling that most children do have."