Once we decided that divorce was the best option for us, my personal approach to how to co-parent well was to make sure that my child knew I loved her more than any dislike or hate that I would have had for my ex husband and to make sure that we both felt the same way, that we were on the same page and to focus on compromising whenever and wherever we could just to make sure that she knew that she was the priority in our lives and that nothing else was as important as she was to us. So that is what we ended it doing and it ended up working really well for both of us.